Dear Upset: Over the course of most marriages, partners don’t reflexively share all of their outside communications with one another, but you and your husband are at an inflection point, and a marriage counselor might suggest that your husband share his texts with you as a way to establish — or re-establish — trust.
When he left, he took just about every item we’d purchased together, including my car, and my portion of the money that was in our savings account.